Why Tisha B’Av Matters

Over the centuries, Tisha B’Av has represented some of the darkest moments in Jewish history. From the fall of the First and Second Temples to modern-day examples of displacement and suffering, this day reminds us that loss and devastation have too often accompanied the Jewish experience. Yet Tisha B’Av is also a poignant time to consider what we’ve learned—and how we can bring more compassion into the world.

Customs and Observances

  • Fasting & Mourning: Many people observe a 25-hour fast and practice customs of public mourning.
  • Reading of Lamentations: The biblical Book of Lamentations (Eikhah) is traditionally chanted, expressing sorrow over Jerusalem’s destruction.
  • Periods of Reflection: The three weeks leading up to Tisha B’Av—and especially the “Nine Days” before the fast—are often marked by reduced joy (such as refraining from music or major celebrations).

A Call to Kindness

Rabbinic sources teach that senseless hatred contributed to the destruction of the Temples. By remembering those mistakes, we recommit to building stronger bonds, using words that heal instead of harm, and ensuring that empathy guides our actions. Tisha B’Av invites us to grow from our past so we can embrace a better tomorrow.

Learn More & Engage

Download our brochure to discover the deeper history of Tisha B’Av, its practices, and how these traditions can resonate meaningfully in our own lives—even today.

May this day of reflection inspire us to approach one another with renewed sensitivity, care, and unity. Tzom kal—wishing you a meaningful fast.